The Best Sex Toys for Absolutely Everyone and Every Kink

This vibrator curves around your shaft and stimulates all the most sensitive spots. Best of all, the other side also vibrates, so your partner can press themselves against it at the same time. If you’re a fan of slow dry-humping but would love if it were, well, less “dry,” try this one out.

While you’re likely aware of the infamous Fleshlight, the first and most well-known male masturbator, you might not know that the manufacturers came out with what they call the Quickshot. It’s smaller than the original, with only 3.5 inches to insert your penis, meaning it (likely) won’t cover the entire shaft. But the perks are that it’s easy to store discreetly, and doesn’t look like a typical Fleshlight, which isn’t necessarily something you want a casual hookup to stumble on.

This gorgeous solid stainless steel toy is ideal for applying firm pressure to the G-spot or P-spot, and it’s great for both cis and trans guys. The curvature of the toy is super stimulating, and its firmness allows for direct, constant pressure. Just maybe pack a waterproof poncho if your partner is a squirter because things might get a little wet.

You can wrap this flexible vibrator around your dick wherever it feels the best, and keep it in place using the stretchy ring that comes with it. The toy connects to the Lovense app, which allows you to control its vibrations with your phone, or even let a long-distance partner take the wheel.

If good things come in small packages, this vibe is a prime example. Its tiny size means its big, rumbly vibrations come as a surprise the first time you flip it on. It’s waterproof, so it’s an ideal companion for bathtub masturbation or shower sex.

If you watch porn, you’ve probably seen a Magic Wand in action at some point. It’s the OG ultra-powerful vibrator, and it got even better when its maker introduced a cordless model a few years back. It may not be most discreet massager in the world, but that’s honestly a big part of its charm: There’s nothing subtle about this toy or the orgasms it doles out.

Dual-stimulation vibrators hit inside and outside at the same time—you might remember the classic Rabbit vibrator from Sex and the City. But these things are notoriously difficult to pick out, because the distance between the clit and the vaginal opening varies so much from person to person. But this one is practically universal: It uses a super-flexible arm to reach the clit as the user thrusts the toy in and out without losing contact.

It’s no secret that standard P-in-V sex doesn’t always give the clit the stimulation it needs, and a slim toy can be just the thing to get both parties over the line. This petite toy is one of those “sucking” toys that uses rhythmic pulses of air to create clitoral sensations that mimic great oral sex—and unlike many other toys with this toe-curling technology, the We-Vibe Melt is slim enough to slip between bodies easily.

Many companies have done a version of We-Vibe’s signature C-shaped vibrator, but the original is still the best. Meant to be “worn” during intercourse, the We-Vibe stimulates both partners at once, for stronger (and possibly simultaneous) orgasms. This model has two hinges at its center, so you can adjust it to achieve the right fit.

The power dynamics, the gender play, the potential for intense prostate orgasms? Pegging is fun. And if you’re curious, this kit will get you started: It comes with a harness, two differently-sized toys (including a starter-sized one for total newbies), and a small vibrator you can slip into the harness to make sure you both enjoy yourselves. Add lots and lots of water-based lube and you’re good to go!

The best massager on the market, bar none. It’s expensive, but if you plan on using it more than a few times, then there’s no reason not to splurge. The incredible precision of the vibrations separates Hugo from the pack. To control the speed and intensity, you simply tilt the circular remote. So if you tilt down and to the right, the vibrations will be stronger on the back right side.

While this is more of an anal vibrator, it earns a spot on this list for having the exact right curvature to hit your P-spot over and over again. With multiple different vibration settings and strengths—plus a flared base, of course—the Loki is perfect for partner play and solo exploration, both with and without vibration. It also feels like pulling a sword from a stone, which is cool.

Anal beads are great, but add vibration and it’s like being rocketed to a different dimension. The Triplet beads come in graduated sizes: Start by inserting the smallest one, then work up to all three. When it feels right, use the remote to up the intensity of the vibration.

Rimming can feel amazing regardless of your gender or genitals. Everyone’s anus is a highly sensitive nerve-packed area that deserves some exploration. And what better way to do that than with the b-Vibe Rimming 2 butt plug? It has rotating beads at the base, for intense stimulation around your sensitive anal entrance. This toy will delight beginners who are new to butt stuff, but it’s powerful enough for seasoned pros too.

You can’t just dive head first into anal play. Seriously, don’t even try it. Beginners should slowly “train” their rear end, and this anal dilator set from Dr. Evan Goldstein’s brand Future Method lets users gradually increase how much their derrière can take. These are also great for temperature play and because they’re waterproof, you can use them in the shower, too.

Adding vibration to penetrative sex can make it feel awesome for both partners, and this is the best product for the job. It’s got deep, rumbly vibrations and is made of silky-smooth silicone for a luxurious feel.

Even the most basic of cock rings, like this one, can do a lot: They constrict the blood flow at the base of your dick to enable stronger, longer-lasting erections, and they increase your sensitivity and pleasure. This is an ideal first cock ring to try out if you’re curious about ’em.

Designed to help you learn to last longer, this highly textured stroker can feel overstimulating at first—but the more you practice edging with it, the better you’ll be able to control yourself when boning an actual person.

This stroker offers vibrations as well as rhythmic “contractions” that feel a lot like when a partner’s pelvic muscles squeeze tight around you during sex. A partner can take control using the Lovense app, making this a solid choice for long-distance sweethearts.

If you’ve never tried nipple clamps before, your best bet is a set of adjustable clamps like this one. Those with a low pain tolerance should be able to handle these alligator clamps thanks to their adjustability, which can be tightened or loosened for customizable pain. Also, the metal chain between them is fun to tug on when you want to send a jolt through the wearer’s body.

This cult-fave product turns your bed into a bondage station. Slip the long straps under your mattress (it’s easier than it sounds) and you’ll have two wrist cuffs and two ankle cuffs hanging off the edges of your bed, ready to be used whenever you want. It’s like bondage on easy mode.

“The Heart Wedge from Liberator makes for a great sex wedge that is perfect for lifting and positioning for deeper stimulation, plus it looks like a decorative bed pillow and no one will know the other sexy uses for it,” points out Linnea Marie, a sexologist and relationship coach. Its discreet aesthetic might make it a good pick if you’re worried about kids, roommates, nosy relatives, etc. spotting it.

“Chaises and sex pillows are my favorites because they are great for anyone who wants better orgasms, regardless of where you are in your sexual journey, and who doesn’t want that?!” says Nikkita Grady, a sex educator and postpartum sex & intimacy coach. “They’re especially useful if you have trouble reaching orgasm because they allow you to elevate your hips and try different angles and positions that might not have been possible before.” This chaise ostensibly works well for yoga, stretching, and relaxing, but can also accommodate and facilitate a variety of sexual positions. It’s one of those rare pieces of sex furniture that might actually get used as furniture just as often as it’s used for sex, assuming you have enough space for it.

The idea of a “ball-stretcher” might sound scary, but this type of product actually stretches your scrotum rather than your balls, similarly to how it would be stretched if you gently pulled downward on your sack. This toy functions similarly to a cock ring, inhibiting blood flow out of your penis to enable a stronger and longer-lasting erection, but it’ll also give you that nice ball-tugging sensation at the same time. “I couldn’t be happier with my purchase. The material is extremely soft and has a good amount of stretch,” one Amazon reviewer enthused. “It pulls on your balls with a good amount of pressure and feels great.”

Clinical sexologist and sex therapist Ness Cooper recommends this vibrator for its easy-to-hold “pebble” shape, which can fit right into the palm of your hand. Its lovely, low-pitched vibrations are wildly satisfying, whether you use it during sex, masturbation, or just incorporate it into a body massage. This vibe’s soft and squishy tip (hence the name MiMi Soft) makes it more comfortable to use than vibrators made of hard materials like plastic.

Cooper recommends this slim, flexible Lovehoney dildo for first-time sex toy penetration, whether anal or vaginal, because of its “tapered tip that allows for effortless insertion, and its flared base which can also act as a handle.” Plus, its colorful glittery exterior is also fun to behold, so it might be a less intimidating option for newbies than something hyper-realistic.